My wonderful baby boy is 6 months old!!!!
The last 6 months I’ve tried to be more baby-led than I was with Violet and Ezra. It wasn’t entirely through choice, as having 2 other young children means I cannot put Felix’s needs first all the time. I don’t have time to stick to a routine and I cannot be a good enough mum to Ezra if I’m focusing on Felix having sleeps and feeds at set times. Thankfully Felix is a very adaptable baby. He doesn’t need set conditions to fall asleep (hello no blackout blinds!) or feeds at certain times. I think breastfeeding has massively contributed to this as he can just feed as much as he wants whenever he wants!
Sleep… It’s a hot topic of conversation when a stranger stops me in the street for a chat. “Is he sleeping through yet?!”. Erm, NO! last night I was up 6 times!!!!!!! But on a good night he wakes every 4 hours. I can live with that as it usually means 2 night feeds. He still sleeps in the cosleeper right next to me. I’ve absolutely loved having him right there and not having to get out of bed in the middle of the night. I usually bring him into our bed for the final feed and we cuddle. It’s a way of me getting a bit more sleep but I also do love this feed as we bond even more.
Teeth! The boy has 6! The other day he bit the top off a breadstick! I thought it would cause real issues for breastfeeding, and to begin with I was getting bitten several times a day. But these days he only bites when a new tooth is coming through or if he is being playful. I had hoped he would stop at 6 teeth for a while, but I’m pretty sure number 7 is ready to pop so maybe he is trying for a full set by the time he is 1!
Movement. Well he hasn’t ever rolled, or even come close! I can still leave him somewhere and come back to find him in the same place flapping his arms to be picked up! He loves to stand and bounce. Not very keen on being on his tummy which surprises me as he sleeps on his front. Movement will come, I’m quite glad I don’t have to baby-proof anything yet. And that will be a real challenge when the time comes!! I hope he masters sitting independently soon.
Felix is such a snuggly boy. He wants to be held and cuddled all the time. He loves kisses and being tickled. Apart from me and Joe his favourite people are Violet and my mum! Violet has super powers to stop him crying and make him smile. She’s a wonderful help to me in the mornings while I’m dashing about. Felix always has smiles and chatter for his big sister. My mum has amazing powers at keeping Felix very calm. Up until recently she only had to hold him for a few moments and he would fall asleep!
Felix is such a joy. He has taught me so much. We are very lucky to have this little star in our lives.