I’m celebrating a huge milestone in my journey of motherhood….6 months exclusively breastfeeding my baby. It’s a target I always hoped I would reach. My breastfeeding experiences with Violet and Ezra were not easy at all. So for my third child to take to it as easily as Felix did has been such a gift.

 I’ve been thinking about some tips I’ve learnt in my varied experiences of breastfeeding my children, so here goes….
1) At the beginning you need gel for those nips while they toughen up! Felix was born at home as planned but we were then transferred to hospital. I had a basic hospital bag packed but hadn’t put in my Lansinoh gel. By the time he was 12 hours old my nipples were raw and blistered. Joe brought in a tube of gel for me and I religiously applied it after every feed. Thank goodness! I think I addressed it just in time for me to be able to carry on feeding. I think I used the gel for the first 2-3 weeks before it was no longer necessary.

2) Breastfeeding groups are worth their weight in gold. In the first 2 months I went about 4 or 5 times. I had some specific questions and wanted help with positioning. I also went along when we were feeling ready to introduce a bottle of expressed milk. The ladies who ran the groups were so welcoming, informative, helpful and encouraging. They supported me at the beginning of my successful breastfeeding journey and I’m enormously grateful.

3) Drink. Always have a drink on the go, even better, have 2 on the go! I have a sports bottle which I take to bed to see me through nightfeeds. If I’m about to feed him I make sure I get myself a drink first. Even if Felix is getting upset waiting for a feed I know how important it is for me to stay hydrated. Dddrrriiinnnkkkkk!

4) I have an electric pump which is good, but a total faff to clean and assemble. There are so many small parts! So when I came across a silicon suction pump from Nature Bond with rave reviews I decided to give it a go. I cannot even begin to say how much I love this thing! I find I get best results when Felix feeds from the other breast. It’s perfect…super easy to clean, small and works so well. I easily get 4oz from this in less than 5 minutes whereas the electric pump would take me far longer. I also don’t need to hold the cup as it stays on with the suction.


5) Teeth doesn’t have to spell the end of breastfeeding. I had never previously breastfed a baby with teeth so just the thought of having to go through this sent shudders down my spine! Trust my only exclusively breastfed baby to get his first teeth before he was 3 months old! Today he sprouted his 7th!! I have noticed that he tends to bite more often when he is just about to pop another tooth through. I am also reading his signs and know that when he is coming to the end of a feed he is more likely to bite, or when he is bobbing on and off in a playful way. If he does bite I swiftly unlatch him (which in itself is enough to grab his attention) and then firmly say “ouch! No biting”.

I’ve experienced the heartache and joy of breastfeeding. When it’s not working it’s just soul destroying. But when it goes right it’s one of the most beautiful experiences of my life.

I have reached 6 months now. Bring on the next 6!

Unbelievably Felix is now 2 weeks old. Time has flown and I really cannot imagine life without him in it. He feels like the most special baby, I just adore him! I felt the same with Violet and Ezra but I am so relaxed this time it’s reflecting really positively on my outlook. Before these newborn days become just a memory I need to record how Felix has got to grips with life on the outside.

Felix is a little pro at breastfeeding! After the complications, worries and difficulties with Violet and Ezra I really hoped my third baby would just get it. At the hospital a student midwife took the time to help me with positioning and the latch. She helped me so much and I felt really confident that Felix also knew what he was doing. He fed every couple of hours for the first 48 hours and before I knew it my milk came in. The sense of achievement was immense!

On the 4th night he fed from 11pm until 5am! This hasn’t been repeated thankfully and nights are going pretty well. On day 5 Felix had lost 6.5% of his birth weight. The midwives told me this was really good and to carry on as we are. On day 10 he had gained 120g and on day 14 he gained a further 240g (8oz)! These figures are so rewarding and give me confidence every day that we are succeeding.

Being able to go out without bottles or concerns that he will not feed well from me is so liberating. So far I have breastfed him in a pub, in the park and during our registering of his birth appointment. As tiring as it is taking up the feeding responsibility all myself, I am really loving our journey so far.

The first week was pretty exhausting. Night time cluster feeds, sore breasts, a baby who wanted to be held all night…. But Felix and I have now found our way and I think we are getting maximum sleep at the moment.

Generally our routine in the evenings is for me to feed Felix until he goes to sleep some time after 9pm. I then give him to Joe while I go to bed for a couple of hours. It’s nice for me to have a bit of baby free time and also lovely for Joe to have a cuddle with his son. Joe then brings him to me when he wakes and I feed him. Felix settles nicely when he is swaddled so I do this and then we cosleep. Cosleeping was not something I planned to do but it seems to be working really well so for now this is best. He wakes around 3am and 6am for feeds. I can’t complain.

During the day Felix loves cuddles but he also sleeps really soundly in the Sleepyhead. He doesn’t seem as keen to sleep in it during the night though!

Violet and Ezra
Violet and Ezra adore their baby brother!! There hasn’t been a hint of jealousy and both have been really gentle with him. Violet asks to hold him quite a lot and if he is unsettled she sings him songs and holds his hands. It’s adorable!

Ezra asks to “see Fee-ix” all the time. He strokes him and says “ello” in a high pitched voice when he wakes from a nap. Sometimes he even wants to give him a “cuggle”.

I hope this happy state remains and Joe’s return to work next week isn’t too hard on Ezra (or me!!).

So we are happy. Life is wonderful with Felix in it. This baby moon has been blissful and I really believe I have soaked in every moment. I’ll remember these first days forever.

I’m often asked by friends what our top baby purchases have been.  Some things are total tat and gimmicks but there are a few things which I wouldn’t be without.

  1. Ewan the Dream Sheep

This has been an absolute vital sleep aid for my kids.  Ewan plays 3 white noise sounds and 1 gentle tune which last 15 minutes long.  Each sound has a heart beat playing in the background.  Both my children have really responded well to Ewan and we take it with us if we stay away from home.  Once we got through the early weeks of the white noise helping resettle to sleep the sheep became more important as part of our bedtime routine.  Once we settle down for milk and a final cuddle we play the tune from Ewan.  Playing this at every bedtime sends signals to the brain that this is bedtime and therefore sleep time.  Violet only stopped using the sheep when she was 3 years old so who knows when Ezra will decide he doesn’t want Ewan any longer.  But overall I give this little sheep 10/10.  We love him!

2.  Angelcare Movement and Sound Monitor

There are monitors and then there’s the Angelcare Monitor!  When Ezra was a newborn he made it very clear that he did not like sleeping on his back.  I tried to prop him onto his side with a blanket behind his back but he was still uncomfortable.  And then I popped him on his front and he settled beautifully!  All advice these days says that babies must sleep on their backs until they are able to roll over unaided.  I was so worried about him tummy sleeping as he was still only a couple of weeks old.  A friend suggested the Angelcare Movement and Sound monitor.  Not only does it pick up on sounds in the room but there is a sensor mat which is placed underneath the mattress and will detect even the slightest movement of baby breathing.  I’m still completely amazed that it is so sensitive but I can tell you it definitely works!  Thankfully the alarm has only sounded when we have taken Ezra out of the cot and forgotten to turn the sensor pad off.  I wouldn’t be without this product, it works fantastically as a sound monitor but also gives me an enormous peace of mind that my baby is safe.

3. Lansinoh Breast Pads

These are the best breast pads I have tried.  I chose to go down the reusable route however the pads soaked through within minutes and left embarrassing patches on my tops.  Not to mention that it’s just miserable wearing wet clothes.  I was recommended these pads as they are super absorbent and also stick onto the bra so no fear of them moving around and popping up out of your top (is it just me that this has happened to??).  I was absolutely amazed at how well these worked.  I leaked a lot, even when my supply was established I still leaked so knowing I wouldn’t end up uncomfortable was so reassuring.

4. Sock-ons

These are just a simple piece of elastic but they are absolute genius!!  No more lost socks!!  They come in various sizes and colours and keep the socks on the baby’s feet.  My children didn’t figure out how to remove them so I am a complete believer in this product.

5. Dr Brown’s bottles

Ezra suffered with colic much more than Violet.  Whenever we gave him a bottle of milk we could actually hear him swallowing air and it bubbling in his tummy.  He would then squirm and cry in pain.  One morning when I was bleary-eyed from another bad night I bought these bottles.  There is a funnel and valve inside the bottle which reduce how much air the baby swallows.  This really did transform things for us.  Ezra drank his milk peacefully and didn’t need much burping afterwards.  They are a bit of a pain to clean, there are several parts which need to be washed.  But the bottles come with a tiny bristle brush which can be poked into all the little holes to clear out the milk residue.  The only frustrating thing is that they can’t really be shaken as I always seem to end up with milk spraying from somewhere.  But instead I just stir the milk with a fork!  So overall there is a bit more care and work involved with these bottles but they vastly help ease colic in small babies.


There we go – my top 5 products for newborns.  Each one has been essential for us and I would use them all again if we were to have more children.

What are your newborn must-haves?


Declaration: This post contains product reviews and links.  I was not asked to review these products, I just think they are really great!  If you click on a link and buy any then I earn a few extra pennies at no extra cost to you.

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